Beyond Lamps & Chandeliers: The New Rules of Beautiful Home Lighting

When we think about decorating a room in our homes, most of us focus on furniture, paint colors, rugs, and accessories. Lighting often is an afterthought, chosen quickly and then forgotten about once the switch is flipped. But lighting is one of those behind-the-scenes design choices that quietly shapes how a room feels, functions, and even how welcoming a home is to live in day after day.

Over the years, I’ve come to realize that great lighting isn’t about buying the fanciest fixture or following trends. It’s about understanding how light moves through a space, where shadows fall, and how different types of light can completely change the mood of a room.

Whether it’s a softly glowing lamp next to your favorite reading chair, a well-placed overhead fixture where the light is managed using a wall dimmer switch over your dining table that lets you adjust the atmosphere. Lighting has a bigger impact on your home than most homeowners ever give it credit for.

If a room in your house feels like it doesn’t look or feel better, changing up the lighting could be the easy fix.

Why You Should Care About The Right Lighting for a Room

I am a little obsessed with getting the lighting just right in every room in my home. The rooms in our homes are used more intentionally than they once were. Now they serve multiple purposes throughout the day and the lighting should support these purposes.

Many years ago, I did home decorating consults. I would spend a few hours in someone’s home and help them find the best ways to use what they already owned and if needed, then help them choose new furnishings.

I noticed early on that no one seemed to care about their lighting. What they did care about was only if they had a pretty chandelier or a trendy style of table lamp, but their rooms lacked ambiance, especially at night. They didn’t care that the chandelier’s light was glaring in their eyes or if the shades looked orange when a lamp was turned on.

The Different Types of Room Lighting

Here are a few easy ways to use the 4 different types of home lighting in every room that will create the perfect balance of Ambient(general), Accent, Task and Mood lighting.

Each of these types of lighting can effectively dramatically change the look and feel of every room in your house and making your entire home feel more inviting and look better overall.

Ambient Lighting – Is general all-over lighting that has a shade to diffuse and soften the light. This can be an overhead light or lamps in a room.

Task Lighting – Task lighting does just that, it assists you while doing something. A reading lamp, an under the counter kitchen light, a desk lamp that is focused on your work surface so that it clearly illuminates what you are working on.

Accent Lighting – Is the most overlooked element in most rooms, but always the most dramatic as it draws your attention to a particular element or architectural feature. Directional ceiling lights, wall sconces and picture lights attached above a picture frame, a can-light on the floor that accents a plant in a corner or a piece of art on a wall.

Mood Lighting – Lighting in your home should support mood, lifestyle, and wellbeing. It is not just about seeing, but also about feeling. Mood and comfort are just as important as style.

Warm spaces with layered light, cozy moments with dimmers, and flexible lighting zones that shift when you want the mood to be different in a room going from lots of light to work to game night where an over a table light adds needed light to see the board to date night or a movie watching binge in the evening when low lights create help create a relaxing mood.

Trying Out Two Different Lamps in My Living Room

Lamps are definitely a great decorating accessory that add your style and personality to a room, but the function of a lamp, the light bulb wattage, shade (opaque or transparent), height and placement all play a key role in enhancing the beauty and comfort of your home, creating a mood, and helping you perform tasks easier. 

• Think function before form when it comes to lighting when adding lamps to a room.

I bought two floor lamps to try out in my living room. I placed each lamp in the corner for a few days so I could see how it looked from all viewing angles and I also used them at night so I could see how much light each offered.

After seeing both in my room and the type of light each emitted at night made my decision easy.

The swing arm lamp is not height adjustable and is too low and small in scale with the masculine recliner. Plus it can only take a 60 watt bulb which is too dim and is more of a task light, when a more ambient lighting is needed in the corner.

The tripod lamp is 71″‘ high and can take up to 100 watt bulb that provides ambient light to the room, plus its size fills the corner and is in proportion with the size of the recliner.

I liked the look and the light that the 71″ Adjustable Tripod Floor Lamp offered over the smaller swing arm floor lamp. It is more a task light, where the tripod lamp offers ambient light to the room.

I also was able to change-out the bulb socket on the lamp to a dimmer socket so I can dim this light when not needed for reading or for adding overall lighting to a room.

A dimmer socket turns it into a mood setting light with the turn of the knob. Read how to do it in this post, How to Add a Dimmer Socket to Any Lamp in Minutes

Adding More Than One Type Of Lighting to a Room

A floor lamp in one corner of the living room is not the only lighting in the room. It compliments the other sources and different types of light in the room.

The second type of lighting in the room is the overhead eyeball lights in the ceiling that can be either Ambient light that lights up the whole room in general when the eyeball is directed down.

If I change the direction of the baffle to face the fireplace, these ceiling lights become Accent lighting that brings attention to a focal point such as the decorations on the mantel.

These ceiling lights can also be dimmed from a wall switch dimmer to create a relaxing mood when needed.

In the opposite corner from the floor lamp is a table lamp placed behind the sofa. It is on a dimmer, which makes it easy to read or can be dimmed in the evening when watching TV.

The last source of light to the room comes from the overhead ceiling fan with a light in the dining area of the kitchen.

Since we removed the wall between the two rooms to make an open concept space, this fixture plays a part in the living room. It is also on a dimmer switch so I can vary the amount of light when needed.

Each of these four sources of light can also act as ways to divide a room into different zones. For instance a dimmer on the lamp by the sofa can be turned up so one person can read, while the dimmer on the kitchen can be dimmed for someone to be enjoying a candlelit dinner.

Pay Attention to the Color of Your Lamp Shades

Make sure that all the lamp shades in the room cast the same color.

Notice the inside of the shade in the photo above is becoming yellowed with age which is affecting the color when the light is on. I want the shade to be very white both inside as out so the light it emits is soft white light, not orange light which is happening as the shade ages.

• A mix of whites and ecru lamp shades in the same room can look off.  Make sure that all the shades omit your preference for either the same cool or warm color of light.

The only variation you should see is if you have a lamp with an opaque shade. These can be added to the room as accents as no light comes through the shade, it only goes up and down.

Room By Room Lighting Examples

Here are a few of my favorite by room home lighting ideas with easy to understand illustrations.

Having a ceiling fixture in a bedroom that creates overall ambient light can sometimes be harsh. Try to create balance and a more cozy feel for the room with bedside lamps that work as task lamps and may provide all the lighting you need in the room.

Wall mounted swing-arm lamps on either side of the bed will provide adequate light for reading, while leaving night tables free for a clock, books or beverage.

For a more relaxing appeal, add opaque shades to these bedside lamps to cast the light down onto the table or your reading material.  

Accent Walls With Light

In any room you can accent a wall with spot lights to accent a feature. In kids rooms you can accent their walls filled with their awards and such with a wash of light. If the light is on a dimmer, it can act as a night light, too.

Soffits and Other Concealed Locations

Don’t miss out on the mood lighting effect that soffits and other concealed location can take on when you effectively add inconspicuous strips of mini-lights or can lights(uplights) on the top of hutches, shelving units or cabinets.

Adding lighting in these places will highlight your cabinetry, while adding a warm, comfortable atmosphere to a room.

In Open Shelving – Bookcases and Wall Units

You can find inexpensive strips of mini lights in the lighting department of any home improvement store or on Amazon.

If you have a TV in a wall unit having low-level general lighting in the unit will add a relaxing mood to the room if you like to watch with most of the lights off in the room. Having low-level general lighting in the unit or along the under part of the shelves will not wash out the screen or reflect into a viewer’s eyes.

Don’t Forget to Light Up a China Cabinet or Hutch

Inexpensive puck lights or stick-on strip lighting can light up the inside of any cabinet without the need for electricity.  If you have glass shelves you will only need to add the light to the top – the light will travel through the glass.

Designing With Light in the Kitchen

Have you ever been in a kitchen at night that has under the cabinet lighting?  It makes the kitchen seem so special and cozy. Look for battery-operated puck lights or the strip lights if you don’t have an electrical outlet nearby.

Under cabinet lighting is ideas for countertops. Mount as close to the front of the cabinets as possible to avoid glare reflecting off your work surfaces.

Home Lighting Tips To Keep In Mind When Decorating

Mix styles and heights – Every room should have at least three sources of lighting to balance the light. It should come from varied heights (ceiling, table lamp, floor lamp, or task) to assist in evenly dispersing the light throughout the room.

Instead of relying on a center of the room overhead lighting fixture that can cast harsh shadows around the room, add another source of lighting, such a table lamp.

• Match shade color – Look at what color your white lamp shades cast when the light is on. Is it more ecru or white? 

Choose the color you like better and try to buy shades that will all cast the same color of light through the shade. The only exception is of course if you have one shade that is a color and/or a metal or opaque shade where the light is cast up and down and not through the shade itself.

• Use dimmers – If you are handy around the house and can install a dimmer on the wall switch that controls a light, do it. They are not expensive and allow you to vary how bright the light will shine with a simple dial, toggle or slide.

For instance when cooking in your kitchen you may need a lot of light to see what you are doing, but when you sit down to relax and enjoy your dinner, being able to dim that light to eat in a more relaxed state can create a more relaxed state can create a more pleasurable meal, especially if you like to add candles to your table.

The same can go for a bathroom, having the light on a dimmer allows you to dim the lights to take a relaxing bath, but turn it all the way up when you are applying makeup.

• No electrical skills to install a wall dimmer switch? You can use a plug-in style dimmer for any lamp that is plugged into a wall outlet. They cost about $13.00 and are simple to install and use or use a Smart Dimmer if your home can be set up for that.

How to Place Lighting In a Living Room

• Create a triangle when placing fixtures around a room –  When placing light fixtures in a room, I try to follow the triangle or square method of placement. For instance, in my living room I used a triangular pattern to disperse the light evenly throughout the space.

• Try out different styles, wattages, and types of light bulbs –  I am a fan of 100 watt halogen light bulbs, but they are now impossible to find. I have tried many of the new LED types, some emit nice clear white light, others can add a cold blue cast or a yellow cast at night. The color of these bulbs can make a HUGE difference in how your room’s wall and fabric colors look at night. Experiment until you find what brings out the best in your decor.

Room Lighting: Try This Tonight

Why not take a stroll around your house tonight?  Look to see if you have ambient, accent, task and mood lighting in each room.

Ask Yourself

• Is your light balanced throughout each room or is one corner or side in the dark? If not, move or add another lamp to the room. Try changing the wattage and/or lamp shade.

• It’s not only the lamps, but are the shade and the light bulb wattage right for the room? Does the fixture function in the best way that allows you to see while adding the right type of glow to the room to create a mood when needed?

Make Changes

• Move your lamps around, change the shades from transparent to opaque, experiment with different types of bulbs and wattage, place a lamp on a pile of books to create more height.
  • Try adding a small lamp to your kitchen counter – it will add instant cozy mood lighting.  

• How about adding a dimmer switch to a fixture as I mentioned above. Did you know that even existing lamps that you own can have an easy to install dimmer socket added? You can buy them here:
  • Lamp Dimmer Sockets – These require a little DIY, but easy to install.
  • Plug-In Dimmer for Tabletop and Floor Lamps

• When seated near a lamp where when you look up you can see the glare of the bulb, try angling or lower the height of a lamp to ensure you don’t get see any glare.

• If a lamp isn’t high enough for what is around it, add a stack of books under it to give it more height.

Home Lighting: Much More Than Just a Pretty Fixture

Lighting is one of those decorating details that doesn’t shout for attention, yet it influences everything around it. The right mix of light can make a room feel calm instead of cold, cozy instead of cluttered, and intentional rather than thrown together. It’s not about perfection or having a lighting plan worthy of a design magazine, it’s about paying attention to how you actually live in your home and letting different types of light fixtures support that.

If you take one thing away from these home lighting ideas, let it be this: don’t settle for a single overhead fixture and call it done. Layer your lighting, soften the glow, and give each room the chance to feel welcoming at any time of day. Small changes, like adding a lamp, changing the shade or adjusting the warmth of a bulb, can make a surprisingly big difference.

Lighting is one of the easiest ways to refresh a space without redecorating from scratch. Once you start noticing how light works in your home, you may find that your rooms don’t need more décor at all, just better light to let what you already love truly shine.

More Decorating Tips to Try:

• Using Ottomans When Decorating a Room
• How to Decorate So You Feel at Home
• Hang Art on a Wall the Way a Designer Does
• Adding An Accent Wall In a Room
• Adding a Skirted Table When Decorating a Room